Well, it’s been a long time since I’ve written, and I changed my entire website situation, so I apologize for the delay as I learn how to use the new site. I have, however, posted all the previous posts to the site!
I’ve been meaning to get back to writing, but I’ve been slammed, and adjusting, and honestly I wasn’t really ever sure if it mattered. But over the last two months, while I’ve been doing my contemplating, I’ve run into people who have asked me to start up again – people I didn’t even know were out there paying attention – and others who have told me that these posts have helped them in some form or another. So, here I am again, and this time I’ll keep this regular.
There have been a lot of days where I’ve had things to say, and written posts but not posted them, so I’ll get on it and put those up as time goes on.
In the meantime… To whoever IS out there reading, please feel free to send me messages through the contact page on anything you want to hear about. If you’re going through something and need guidance or reassurance to feel like you’re not alone, shoot me a message. I guarantee I have something to say on the matter, and most likely experience with it.
In the past two years my life has take turns I never could have imagined. Some good. Some bad. Some I imagined but was in denial about for years prior. In a nutshell, I’ve closed businesses, started new ones, gone through a gruesome divorce, gotten a crash course in family law, had a psych eval (and found out I am not crazy), moved, listed my house, done A LOT of demo therapy (think bad days, sledgehammers and old homes), gotten a restraining order, made new friends, gotten rid of old ones, learned to say no (among other things I’ve learned and am still working on), refocused, grown, and most importantly, figured out my single mom groove and worked really hard on giving myself some grace.
I met someone who used the word “dense” to describe their life, and all the crazy things they’d experienced in it. I really liked the term and I’m going to steal it moving forward. My life has been dense. The above isn’t even everything from the past two years It’s just a piece of it.
Regardless, it’s been a crazy couple of years, and the journey has been entirely worth every second of it (though it didn’t always seem like it at the time).
I guess I needed some time to regroup, reconsider, and get back here, but I’m here now and ready to go.
Brace yourself… Because it’s been one hell of a year.